Women are so different

I remember when my ex girlfriend's period came unexpectedly

on the first day she visited me at my

place. She woke up in the morning and noticed she was in her period. She was so

embarrassed, so ashamed.

smiling woman wearing brown scarf and maroon coat on snow field

She couldn't get

out of bed not knowing how to tell

me or react because our relationship was only a few weeks old.

Eventually, she asked me to show her where she could wash the sheets.

She got

emotional and

cried. Seeing her cry like that, I felt like I was st@bbed with

a kn!fe on my chest. It was indeed so painful.

I held her

hand looked at her, kissed

her on her forehead. I told her that, it wasn't not her

fault.

That day, I was supposed to go for work but seeing that my woman wasn't feeling

well, I took a day off just to make sure she's okay.

My conscious couldn't let me go to work knowing she was

not okay.

I took the sheets and washed them. Ran a bath for her and went to the nearest shop to get her some pads, gave

her my sweatpants and vest to get comfortable in..

Made

her a tea, rubbed her tummy, cooked food for

her, and we ate snacks, watched movies

and chilled all day...

I knew that attending periods during that situation was not an easy thing. And we, men, don't have to be disgusted by them. When we say we love you, we don't have to just say it, but prove it in actions as well.

I knew that going to the periods for ladies is by nature not a choice, I still understand that. That's why I still cared for her and showed her much love.

... but then she decided to sleep with her baby-daddy. Some women never appreciate! When I cared for her, she decided to bring pain and shame.

Anyway

, women are just as different as we, men, are.