DEAR MARRIED WOMEN.
Don't be shocked.
You will still be chased and wooed by other men even after 4 kids.
You will still get attracted to fine hawt men outside and of course they will still notice you.
You're married, you are not invisible.
Stop thinking it's only your man who should be protected from outsiders.
Stop watching only War Room and developing high BP over "guarding your home"
That home is the responsibility of two adults who consciously took vows to build and guard it together!
Stop occupying all your days searching for Anti-Sidechick prayers and pesticides for strange women.
Stop making them your subjects of spiritual or physical attacks even if they actually exist outside of your imagination.
Your man also needs to protect you from those wandering men roaming around.
Have you even thought of this?
Or you really think its only him who's vulnerable to being chased?
Seriously?
As fat as you've grown, with all the postmarital weight you've added, there's someone admiring you outside.
As haggard as you think you look, you're occupying someone's dreams and fantasies.
As we speak, someone is still trying to figure out how to approach you.
And tell you just how beautiful you make the day appear each time you're seen!
Forget that lying mirror on your dresser and see your lovely self from those eyes for once.
Feel beautiful in your own skin!
You're a Feast for the sight...😍
Marriage shouldn't make you a dull, silent furniture in the corner of a house.
Rather, you should be a stunning painting that brightens up any room.
Even while you're fulfilling your duties to family and raising your children, DO NOT FORGET YOU!
Remember you have just one life to live, live it for yourself if he has refuse to see the beautiful you.
Live it to the fullest!
Stop merely existing!
MOREOVER
Don't let a side chick set a standard for you, rather set a standard they can't beat.
If after you have done everything you know how to do to stop your husband from cheating and he still didn't change, these are the things I will advice you to do;
1. Ignore him and face your life.
2. Develop and improve yourself.
3. Concentrate on your children and their future.
4. If you don't have work, go and get one.
5. Dress well and look nice.
6. Eat good food.
7. Find alternative but legitimate ways to be happy and give more of your time to them.
8. Stay more with those who love you and make you happy, friends, family members, church members etc.
9. Save and invest like no other time. Be able to feed yourself and your children without him.
10. Serve God, prepare for eternity with God. It's not good to suffer here and still suffer hereafter.
11. Don't cheat in revenge. The same way God will punish him that's the same way he will punish you if you commit adultery.
12. If you must have se*x together, insist on a condom except you are sure of his health status.
If you allow yourself to be depressed or develop high blood pressure because of him, if you die he will still marry one of his side chicks.
Be wise!
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