By Benjamin Zulu Ke
Let me tell you this generation of men whether you're married officially, cohabiting or whatever that doesn't stop them from misbehaving,
they will sleep with your neighbor, friends and even house help and refuse to provide n be responsible.
If You don't believe me do a test in a crowd of 10 men only 2 have kids with one woman the rest have like 5 baby mamas.'
This is a generalisation coming from a bitter and frustrated person. It makes a difference what kind of due diligence you do on a person before you invest your life in them. It also makes difference if you have to part ways later and you had done your paperwork right because you can recoup some losses.
These people who say it's better to just cohabit to avoid being swindled are misleading. If you want stability and security you must purposefully look for it.
If you were investing your money would you leave things to chance like that? Especially if you want to settle your family in a home, wouldn't you go to great lengths to only purchase a clean property?
A friend of mine was putting finishing touches on his house when a woman came there and started screaming.
Apparently she had purchased the same property a year before but she was yet to get the paperwork. My friend had purchased it after doing the right searches and due diligence and obtaining the ownership deed. Unbeknownst to both,
they were dealing with an unscrupulous dealer who preyed on people's naivety and the woman had fallen prey. Life is like that generally, even in relationships. Your due diligence will save you.
How many people have disappeared on you after you insisted on doing things the right way? Whether it was a relationship or a dealership, you knew you had dodged a swindle.
Never make a fool of yourself by saying all women or men are this way or that way. Stop looking for shortcuts and generalisations. Better to apply patience and due diligence until you meet what you seek.
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