13 MISTAKES TO AVOID IF YOU MUST KEEP YOUR LOVE AFFAIR AND MARRIAGE (PART ONE)
To everything, the psalmist says, 'there is time and season under the sun'. A time to fall in love or be in-love and a time to fall out of love. A season to catch, attach deeply uncontrollable feelings for the opposite se*x and another new season to detach or get the unfeeling. A time to start a sweat relationship full of hopes, dreams, bliss, fantasy and another time to put an end to the once impeccable relationship. A season to get married or go into the union call wedlock and another season to divorce or get out of the sacred union call marriage. You would agree with me that even the sacrilegious act call divorce itself cannot escape time and season. Whether we like it or not, everything with a beginning surely has an end - this is the simple fact about life!
, womanizing, pride (full of him or herself), selfishness (caring for once self alone), anger, lack of attention, lack of communication, Ego, too much demanding for money, being taken for granted in the relationship, unreasonable, irresponsible, lack of seriousness, stinginess, stubbornness, immaturity, arrogance, pomposity, long distance relationship, too much urgent 2k, pretending too much, neglect, gossiping, body or mouth odour, poverty etc. Cast you mind back to all you past relationships or love affair you must find out that one, if not more than two among the above were the major reasons for brake up. For those of us who are still in a relationship right now, one or more of the above may be the cause of you or your partner ending the relationship if not careful!
I was able to dig through a facebook group call DATING AND LOVE ZONE and I discovered that from the numerous mitakes that end relationship above, thirteen of them seem to stand out. A simple question was asked, "what made you stop having feeling for someone you were madly in love with before?" About four hundred people responded and these thirteen mistakes below kept on reoccurring. Then I was able to make statistics of which one of them causes separation more in a relationship or marriage than the other.
1. CHEATING: about 50 people said that cheating was the major reason why they stopped having feelings for their former partner.
2. LIES: 67 people confirmed that too much lie was the reason why they ended their past relationship.
3. OVER BILLING OR MONEY: 17 people said money was the reason for brake up in their past relationship. The other partner decided to turn them into a breathing ATM machine, so they had no option but to call it quit.
4. LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP: 4 persons agreed that it was because of a long distance relationship that ended their former relationship.
5. GOSSIPING: Only one person said too much gossip made him to end the love affair with his ex.
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