Are you a head or a headache in your family as a man?

According to the order of the Holy Bible, men have been made to be the Head of the home and this has been the same right from the genesis of life. But it is quite appalling that many men have failed to understand the true meaning of  being the Head of a home (family). Being the Head means you're the first person to look up to when needs arise in the house; the one given the leadership role and not a mastery role in the family

Most men are not leaders but masters in their homes. They treat their wives and children like slaves and not like followers. They use the elements of force and intimidation for their commands to be obeyed and as a result, their wives and children are always gripped with fear anytime they are around them.

Some men don't take care of their family but prefer to spend money lavishly outside. Most time their children are sent back home from school because of school fee and their wives and children often look unkempt. They stopped their wives from working and still failed to take care of them as a full house wives. Imagine! Your home is financially sick but you spend money lavishly out there, yet, you call yourself a head. You're not a head but a headache in your family.

 

What kind of Head are you when every part of the body attached to you always remain in a state of confusion whenever you're present?. You have refused to accommodate your wife and children, yet you call yourself the head and even say that with boldness anywhere. I'm putting it straight to you that you are not the head but a headache to your family.

 

Imagine how we would have been able to see, eat and smell, if the head attached to our body has refused to accommodate the parts of the body like the eyesmouth and nose.

Listen to me you that man that beats your  wife and bully your children all the time,  you have lost your primary and God given role in your family as the head but remain a headache to the family.

Be a pillar but not a caterpillar, a builder but not a breaker, a raiser but not an eraser and a restructurer but not a destroyer.

Cease beating ur wife and bullying your children, cater for their financial needs and play all your roles as a man in the house, as ordained by God and bring back the lost joy in your family.

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