BE THE LIGHT!

You meet a lady and the first thing she tells you is the fact that she doesn't want another heartbreak, she's afraid of commitment probably because of what she has experienced. If you don't have the right intentions towards her, just admire her and let her go, don't add to the mess already caused by others.

The truth is that you will likely meet someone who has had a bad experience from his/her past relationship, someone who has been used s,exually, raped, molested, abused, cheated, jilted or disappointed.

It is now your responsibility to re-write the narratives and change their perspective.

Be a light in this dark world, be the first man/woman who re-writes the narratives, be the man/woman who will give hope to him/her that sincere people still exist.

Don't walk into someone's life to lead them further into darkness and more pain, don't walk into someone's life to make his/her life more difficult and complicated.

Be the man who makes her know that abuse against women is not a normal thing.

Be the man to make her believe that not all men are after s,ex.

If other women have jilted him before, be the first woman to make him believe that not all women behave that way.

Be the woman to show him that a woman can be respectful, spiritual and supportive.