WHAT IT TAKES TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP
The best gift you can give to yourself and your unborn children is choosing the right person as your life partner you need to understand that when you are choosing a husband/partner, you're not just choosing a husband for yourself, you're also choosing a father for your children.
When you choose a wife/partner, you're not just choosing a wife for yourself, you're choosing the mother of your unborn kids.
So while choosing, you're not just thinking About yourself, you're thinking about those innocent children that you both are gonna produce, you're thinking about the family you're dreaming of building.
The more reason why you reall have to be careful in choosing a life partner
YOUR LIFE PARTNER CAN EITHER MAKE YOU OR BREAK YOU📌📌
Many people think that relationships that last are built on *LOVE THE FEELING,* nah it doesn't work that way my darlings.
You know, many people are in SITUATIONSHIP with many people (As in they're dating many people at the same time) thinking that they're in love. But let me clarify this, you can be attracted to 13 people at the same time, BUT THAT IS NOT LOVE. *LOVE IS A COMMITMENT* not A FEELING. You are committed to this person, you're not being forced, you find joy in staying true to this person... Now that is what you call
FOR A RELATIONSHIP TO LAST, IT MUST BE BASED ON CERTAIN THINGS:👇🏽👇🏽
*THE FEELINGS MUST BE MUTUAL:* This means that one person's love cannot sustain a relationship. You can't be the only one motivating the other person to go with you, you can't be the only one high on making this relationship work, it is a joint effort, they too must he interested in going with it because a time will come that you both will have to be motivating yourselves (as in your personal self,) to continue. This is where *COMMITMENT* comes in.
God has so much blessed us that as humans, low-key we know that we're being deceived but sometimes, we willing decide to close our eyes and pretend to be blind
If you're on this table, you need to work on yourself...and if you don't do that, it's all on you if anything goes wrong.
Yes, you love the man, does he love you??
Does he??
Yes you love that lady, does she love you???
Does she??
I'm not talking about LOVE THE FEELING HERE, I'M TALKING ABOUT LOVE THE COMMITMENT. You both have to be committed to this relationship if you want it to last.
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