D.I.S.T.A.N.C.E
Some of you are in a relationship that there's so much distance between you guys.
Emotional distance, physical distance, spiritual distance, no connection whatsoever.
Looking at this picture so glaring, we could see the distance between them, some few factors may contribute to such distances.
EGO & PRIDE
Who calls first? who chat first?
"I was the one who called last time, if he doesn't call now, I won't bother checking up on him"
Ego and pride are major factors in creating so much distance between people, there shouldn't be a scale of measurement of who calls or chats first or how often one should chat or call, once you miss your partner, the impulse to call comes, it should be like a reflex action. Stop keeping stock of how many times you reached out first.
And if you feel the other person is not reciprocating your care and love, it's better you dialogue or quite than create some distance between you guys.
LACK OF ATTENTION COMMUNICATION.
This is a major factor too when there's no communication and when you finally get to meet, everyone is either busy with his/her phone or one is busy watching movies or playing games, there's hardly a time for communication and physical connection.
This creates a mental roadblock and it causes a mental and physical distance in relationships.
What other factor(s) do you think causes distance in relationships?
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