Hearing many women stories you will know that the fate of being a girl is not an easy one most especially the African ones.
Pains upon pains, many live there lives on endurance, patience (taking in what they shouldn't but all in the name of peace making ).
The pains of a girl child begins the moment she began to mensurate. Monthly pains and cry, after that, when she fully come of age (every woman dream is to get married one-day especially to the love of her life).
She began to think about who will her dream man be?, where will they meet?...
All the whos and wheres questions will be ringing in her head till the day she will get herself hooked with a guy, she may ends up fallen for the wrong guy.
(Sometimes our heart can just do and undo). At early stage she has had the taste of heartbreak. It never ends there, if a man break your heart is still a man you will get married to.
Now decided to give another man a trial(with the option of double dating ringing in her head. Meanwhile, not all ladies do like to double date).
After screening the both guys she will choose the one she wants (here is another problem,
the one she want may not want her) So the guy will still break her heart (virtually, is very rare to see a lady get married without having at least two records of heartbreak in the past). The heart break might be deeper if she's pregnant for the guy and the guy rejected her. (Almost every good looking babes have an ugly past, some are bold to say it openly while some hide it and it's killing them unknowingly).
She eventually find her husband and now married, here is another terrible pains while waiting upon the Lord for the fruit of the womb, the in-laws will make her life miserable.
(some are unlucky because there husband too is adding to the problem instead of comforting). She will pray and fast till she developed ulcer. After pregnancy while raising the children the husband began to eye another lady outside (if not handle with care she will loose her marriage).
For the sake of marriage women undergoes alot that can't be shared. Money is not all we need, we crave for true love, care and understanding. So I asked what's the fate of a girl child?.
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