Some relationship that started well but have fallen is not because of lost of love but it's because of lost in focus because you can only magnify what you focus on.
Before a man or a woman can love themselves there must be something that will bring them together. Such as;
For men:
Facial Beauty
Manners of speech
Big Back and Front ( sex organs)
Hard working
God fearing
For Ladies
Facial Beauty
Hight
Financial status
Body building
Caring
Nice out fits
Complexion
God fearing
So, Evey one have what they focused on before starting the relationship.
When a man is trying show a lady that he is very rich to take care of her and the lady now accepted the relationship and the money is not flowing as expected the love will die because what attracted her is no more a life.
Some men love a lady because of there body physic, so once they marry and the lady gives birth to a child and lose her shape. The man will start looking for a side girlfriend because what he focused on can't be found any more.
Off side of WRONG and GOOD focus in a relationship.
Wrong focus: This can't withstand down time. It will make you hate and regrets your actions.
Note: A house built in a wrong soil will kill the occupants.
Good focus: This will give you Joy at all time because you will never have any reason the kill your focus.
It's important to place your focus on God's wisdom than what your eyes can see in order not to loose focus on what you focused on before.
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