The justified FEARS of being married and why you need to choose what to know.
PART 1.
What people see all the time is the EXCITEMENT on your face in connection to getting married, the "I can't wait to be married" impressions.
But what people don't see are these JUSTIFIED INNER FEARS of actually BEING MARRIED well seated deep down within you.
||And what you yourself do not also know is that you are not the only one having this inner feeling that you might not be HAPPY in your marriage.||
Imagine that you are very excited about GETTING MARRIED and you are also honestly afraid of BEING MARRIED and your fears are quite justified meaning that you have a good number of reasons to actually be afraid.
You are not really talking about your fears even though it is affecting you badly.
Now, I am making this post because I want to talk about it with you, I want to address it and I can even go as far as addressing your own unique fears if you so wish because I am really prepared.
Now beyond addressing it, I want to give you some scriptural FEAR ABORTION PILLS to completely evacuate it.
Now, Let's go a little deeper..
|All forms of fears is a function of knowledge, all forms faith is also a product of knowledge||
There is faith for getting things from God that is, "the supernatural provoking faith" the one you use to order for your needs from the Jumia of God and he supplies them according to his riches in Christ"
but there is also faith for living, the lifestyle faith which has a lot do with your beliefs, your belief system and your value system,
"The just shall live by HIS faith" kind of faith that enables you to decide your own fate based on your personal beliefs about life
[though not often talked about] but it is the most important because it is within your powers and control.God doesn't determine it, you do based on what you know and have come to believe.
So If you find yourself being scared of being married because you feel you might not be happy in your marriage, it is because of WHAT YOU KNOW.
Growing up as a young Fervent Scripture Union Brother, my major fear was giving my life to a woman after all the years of Spiritual and Sacrificial investments..
So I can understand when a lady decides to just be on her own for a while after coming out from some serious traumatic relationships.
So If you want to develop a concrete convincing faith with the highest level of guaranteed certainty that you will be extremely happy and fulfilled in your marriage, such that it will auto displace all your fears like I later did,
It will also be because of WHAT YOU KNOW.
|All forms of fears is a function of knowledge, all forms of faith is also a product of knowledge||
Just as you have justified fears, there is also a JUSTIFIED FAITH that swallows up your fears like the 🐟 fish that swallowed Jonah.
That is when you have much more justified and factual reasons to be happy, fulfilled and satisfied in your marriage to the point that even your real fears seem to be even useful to you.
Here is the bottom line.
If you want to eliminate your fears of being married and the negative feelings that you might not be happy in your marriage.
Here is what you will do.
You will need to abort the fear-promoting KNOWLEDGE you have about many unhappy marriages because this is not what you want, and the only way to do this is by KNOWING more about the things you want in your own marriage.
The power of knowledge is that what you know is what informs your beliefs and whatever you believe will become your reality whether negative or positive.
This is why you need to choose what to know, more intentionally.
If you want to know more about this, I will leave a link in the comment session of this post. I will also leave a link to my WhatsApp in case you have more personal relationship issues that eats you up, you can talk to me for free.
I will answer every single question I see in the comment section, and your helpful comments are expected because it will help someone reading.
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