WHAT A GOAL-ORIENTED RELATIONSHIP IS
A goal-oriented relationship is one which is aimed at achieving a futuristic purpose, usually for marriage. In this kind of relationship, the partners outline their plans and work towards achieving them together.
TEN WAYS TO KNOW IF YOU ARE A FUN PARTNER
1. The relationship is solely based on s*exual benefits.
2. Partners do not create time to share each others' problems and emotional needs.
3. Every visit ends up in se*x.
4. The 'love' shared between the duo is superficial and unreal without basis.
5. There are no plans towards the future; the relationship lives in the moment.
6.There is non-existence of deep bond nor friendship between partners.
7. Partners are unaware about each others' love language(s).
8. Partners are driven by benefits they'd get from each other rather than love e.g, the female partner may be driven by financial benefits while the male is driven by lustful desires.
9. It is an infatuated relationship and often do not last long.
10. Feelings shared are shallow.
TEN WAYS TO KNOW IF YOU ARE A LIFE PARTNER
1. The relationship is a committed one and goal-oriented.
2. Partners make out time to share each others' problems and emotional needs.
3. Partners create time to discuss about their future.
4. They are unafraid nor ashamed to tell their respective families and friends about their relationship.
5. Partners go out of their way to help each other grow, emotionally, mentally and financially.
6. Partners look out for each other are are conversant with their love languages.
7. The feelings shared between partners are solid and tend to last long.
8. Partners take time and efforts in investing in each others' lives.
9. They share a friendship-relationship.
10.The relationship is not based on sexual benefits.
CHOOSING BETWEEN BEING A FUN PARTNER OR A LIFE PARTNER
Having read through the above, it is quite certain that at this moment, you should know what kind of partner you should be and what kind of relationship you should definitely be in.
Does your partner exhibits traits of a FUN PARTNER listed above? If yes, you definitely shouldn't be in such relationship. Walk away for your own mental health and to avoid futuristic damages.
Make out plans and strive towards achieving them. And if you, my dear reader, exhibit traits of a FUN PARTNER, you definitely should change and become goal-oriented.
Prioritize your goals and see which should come first or not.
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