..... And men end up looking for that first feeling of each relationship.
Please note that below is my own opinion only and does not conform to anybody.
The second stage of the relationship is at the age of 26-34. This is the crucial part of the relationship in the women side because of possessiveness. Women mentality is simple and yet complex from the perspective of men.
The women wants everything visible and transparent for that span. They want to own the men and take control of their life which is of course impossible.
My advise to all the women who think like this, if you want the relationship to take a longer course. We nee to be open-minded. From the first day of the relationship, you need to remind our self to behave.
Women shouldn't reform the person, instead try to get along with it if you can and in due course, the person can also get along with you habitually. It's a give and take relationship.
Jelousy is a common ground for the fight. it's a green-eyed monster that lurks in the deep of our heart. Why we feel jelousy? Because of insecurity, we don't know what's behind us and our feelings cannot determine on coping up on that situation because we do not know. Petty jealousy is okay but jealousy that distort our facial expression is disgusting. It will deplete our value. First thing we will ask to our ourselves. Don't we have a self value? If we can't control how to balance our emotions means that we cannot have a long lasting relationships.
Discuss on your behalf or partner at the early stage what are the things he wants and don't need in the relationship in order to avoid doing it and face the consequences later.
You should also laid what you wants and don't need in the relationship. From that on, both of you will decide if you can get along with those terms.
It's easy to be said than done but how about doing it from the very beginning of the relationship? What could go wrong if your intension is good?
It's also boring if you knew everything on that person. Relationship is like a puzzle in general. When you solve it many times and expert on solving it, you no longer have a drive to continue it.
3rd stage will continue on my next article.
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