Gentlemen, please remember this:
on your first date with a girl you like, pay attention to one detail:
is she willing to pay?
This is incredibly important; a small gesture can determine the future of your relationship
When paying the bill, see if she asks, "How much is my portion?" and makes a gesture as if she is reaching for her wallet. If she does not offer anything at all, and then just pats the bag on her hand waiting for you to pay—I advise you not to ask her out again any more
A guy offering to pay on a date is out of politeness, not an obligation.
If she does not even say thank you and shows no intention of helping, this attitude makes her take all your efforts for granted
Conversely, if she asks or seems inclined to help, it is perfectly fine even if you end up paying.
Because she has shown her appreciation, she might treat you back next time, or you can split the bill.
This kind of girl is worth continuing the relationship with
You can tell whether someone is worth it from a small gesture
Furthermore, after starting a relationship, never say "I will support you"
This kind of chauvinistic thinking is outdated.
Now it is about mutual support, not one person supporting the other.
If she is capable and earns her own money, saying you will support her is actually belittling her.
If she encounters difficulties or loses her job, you can say "I will help you," but do not say "I will support you
Do not unilaterally spoil your girlfriend unless she spoils you in return.
Relationships are mutual; no one should be a one-sided giver
Finally, after marriage and having children, try not to ask her to quit her job to care for the childre
If possible, hire a helper or ask your parents for assistance.
After work, you two should take care of the child together and share the responsibilities.
Many women who quit their jobs find it very difficult to return to their previous workplaces; their seniority drops to zero and their experience is interrupted, which is not good for them or their families
Even if the worker's salary is similar to theirs, it is not a problem; it is just temporary, and it will pass in a few years
Why insist on this
Because if you place all the burdens on yourself, one day you might suddenly lose your job, and your entire business will be gone.
But if your wife is also working, at least someone else is supporting you
Do not put all your eggs in one basket
Remembering this does not mean becoming petty and calculating, but rather understanding what is mutual and what is respect.
Finding someone willing to share the burden of building a business with you will make the future truly easier.
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