You know, what happens when someone leaves you. When someone leaves our lives they take a huge part of their own with them from our lives. It’s as a huge part of us has gone with them and after that, we don’t know what to do with the empty space. Let’s talk about filling that empty space.
I was wondering that actually what we are? Maybe we all are a very big collage. Our life is going on with so many different pieces and all these pieces, all these parts are all the people we have met them till today. Some of them are very close to us, some has very large part in our life and some are small. All the people with whom we have a relationship, with whom our memories are connected with whom we have relationship as well as attachment. All kind of people and all kind of parts. Now, whatever the reason, when someone goes, he takes a big part of himself with him and then we don’t understand how to fill that empty space.
The funny thing is that when someone else leaves, this empty space also becomes a place for someone else to come. Someone new comes and starts making their memories. It is possible for a newcomer to increase his share, but this is possible only if we allow this to happen. Looks, it’s up to us to fill that space with happily, sadly, quickly or comfortably. How many time it takes only you can decide because I think that every flowers has their own time to bloom. It takes time to heal every wound.
Life is too ironic. It takes sadness to know what happiness is, no use to appreciate silence and absence to value presence. It's painful when someone leaves you and that someone takes a huge part from your life with them that hurts you more and more. It hurts to let go but sometimes it hurts more to hold on.
When man leaves you there is a gift behind him leaving. Sometime, , the breakup is the blessing. Sometimes you got a get rid of a man. In order for God to give you the man that you really need. So, sometimes losing a man is not a loss. So, every time something bad happen, you just have to wait on the lesson and the blessing. It always happens because God always has a gift behind every pain that you have. People comes and go in our life, but the right ones always stay that's one is God’s gift in your life. Here I want to say that spend your time with people who bring out the best in you not the stress in you. I always told to my friends that find someone that knows how to calm your storms.
A wise man said that memories are always painful either these memories are good or not and that’s absolutely right because memories reminds your past and make you cry but on the other hand, memories feels us happy. By the way, when you feel empty because when someone leaves you. In this regard, Please don’t wait for someone to give you roses, plant your garden and decorate your soul because be yourself nobody is better qualified. These all things make you stronger than you think. When you realize how your thoughts are powerful then you’ll never try to please anyone.
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