Every Relationship Is Successful In Different Ways
Be Together For The Right Reasons. Everything that makes a relationship work is Happiness sustainable for both people involved. It requires a genuine, deep level admiration for each other. Without that mutual admiration, everything else will unravel.
it is useful to point out that love, itself is neutral. It is something that can be both healthy and unhealthy, harmful or helpful, depending on why and how you love someone else and are loved by someone else. By itself, love is never enough to sustain a relationship.
Have Realistic Expectations About Relationships and Romance There will be days, or weeks, or maybe even longer, when you are not obsessed with love. You are even going to wake up some morning and think, you are still here. That normal! and more importantly, sticking it out is totally worth it, because that too will change. In a day or week, or maybe even longer, you will look at that person and a giant wave of love will illuminate you, and you will love them so much to think your heart can't possibly hold it all and is going to burst. Because a love that is genuine and obvious constantly evolves. It expands, contracts and deepens. it is not going to be the way it used to be or the way it will be.
True love . That is deep, abiding love that is unaffecting to emotional whims or feelings. it is a constant commitment to a person regardless of the present circumstances. It is a commitment to a person who you understand is not always ready to make you happy or not! and a person who will need to rely on you at times, just as you will rely on them. That form of love is much harder, primarily because it often does not feel good and it challenging. It is a lot of early morning doctors visit, it cleans up body fluids you had rather not been cleaning up. It deals with another persons insecurities, fears and ideas. Even when you don't want to. But the form of love is also far more satisfying and meaningful, and at the end of the day. it brings true happiness, not just another series of high hopes.
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