Ask guest pack “wedding celebration red pocket money” twice is the most ridiculous and the worst thing in a wedding

What is the most ridiculous thing in a wedding to you

to me, it is those newly wed people who ask people pay their own real cash to selves as WEDDING RED PACKETS which contain real cash or money, unbox all the red packets then condemn guests who pay less money then go back to the guest after wedding and chase the owed amount back

first , it is the newly wed responsibility on choosing the price of restaurant that will be used for invited guests own dinner meal during wedding day dinner, even if the cost is high, you can not ask guests pack more real cash to set off or pay off or compensate the owed amount back.

About the amount in the red packets, it is the guest own real cash,

the guests also needs to work diligent on their own occupation to earn every cent even if the guests may really pack very little amount of real cash to the newly wed as wedding red packets , the newly wed can not blame "why you pack me so little real cash"

it is the guest own choice and guests only pack an amount that is really based on the guests own economic situation or their own ability or the amount that the guests can really afford to pack on any amount of real cash they want to pay to the newly wed

the newly wed should not even blame on guests even when guests may pack very little amount of real cash on the red packets because the guests also need to work hard to earn every cent of the real cash that they now have and the newly wed have no rights to say "wow so little real money"

Next, wedding budget and costs. Newly wed should choose somewhere that they can really afford and would not feel expensive or "not worthy". The newly wed should choose cheaper price place and venue and wedding arrangements like wedding clothes and wedding night dinner meal should choose cheaper price meals so that the newly wed can really save their own real money when arrange wedding and would not think that the bride is greedy or bride only loves a lot of real cash like the bride is only chasing for real cash

the worst thing is not expensive price or not worthy

the worst thing is some newly wed the bride loves extravagant things and choose very expensive things and the final outcome is really no much difference with those cheaper price areas or things and then they regret on the wedding

but even the worst, some newly wed would open guests wedding red packets and see how much real cash people pack to them and go find out people who pack very little real cash then blame them "hey we had paid one person How much real cash on the wedding dinner seat every one of you had eaten and it is how much but see how much real cash you had really packed to me! So little ! so few ! How can I be happy with this few real cash? Can you please pay some more real money or pay some extra real money to me later? You really packed very little money to me!"

the worst is not "too expensive"

the worst is having greedy newly wed who would open people packed money to see how much people had really packed to them on their own wedding then chase back the guests who packed very few real money then ask people pack more money back to themselves

anyways , Ask guest pack “wedding celebration red pocket money” twice is the most ridiculous and the worst thing in a wedding