Have you ever been so single because you can't seem to find some one who matches your qualities? When everyone around your county or country seems to not be to yohr liking?.
I know you want to say a dating app will do the impossible. Yeah I know that but have you thought of the effects of it?. So lets talk about online dating and I will major my speech in the negatives because it is the much am aware of.
Online dating is a system that enables people to find and introduce themselves to potential connections over the internet, usually with a goal of developing personal romantic and se*xual relationships.
Some of this apps sites include tinder, afro introduction and match.These apps have been created geared towards 17-24year olds who are looking for a love connection. According to E-harmony,online dating users are 52.4% men and 47.6% women. Although this static obviously varies from site to site.
Looking for a partner in this apps requires a certain level of information which if placed in the wrong hands can be misused.
Needles to say,our study has found that people taking part in online dating are likely to share sensitive information with people they do not or barely know or have only just met.Lets take a quick look at a story that has been on trend concerning The Tinder Swindler who used to lure women into falling in love with him only to use them to get money that he used on other women,Complicated right?.
The guy by the name Simon leviev used to look for women on dating apps only to make them fall for "his" money. His pictures and his profile dictated that he was a rich man from a rich family which sold diamond. The smart scammer would then forge and ambush from his "enemies" to seek pity from the girlfriend. He would then use this chance to lure the girlfriend to believe that he couldn't use his credit cards due to security issues.
He would therefore ask the girlfriend to send him huge sums of money to cater for his plain tickets and upkeep, money that he promised to refund later on. This happened for months before the ladies later found out the man was never going to refund the money and that he was using a fake identity.
This is just an example of what people you barely know are capable of. They want you to think if them as rich and capable of taking good card of you. Men especially can be deceitful, I really don't know why but I think its their biggest hide out.Steven Harvey,and American television and radio presenter,actor,author,businessman and former stand up comedy, once said that men lie because they are afraid of how women react to the truth. Lieing according to him spares people's feelings. Is that why more men are believed to be on tinder compared to women.
I am not against dating apps neither am I discouraging those who are planning to check them out for partners. But I think it's important for these people to know that perfect is not the answer.
You owe no one an handsome girlfriend or boyfriend, listening to the social society that wants to see you with perfect is what might land you into entanglements with people you just met online and their identity is only what they wanted you to know and you are least aware of who they really are.
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