Communicate

By knowing your partner’s preferences and hobbies, metaphors can be used to communicate something the person understands well.

Never take one another for granted

This is only a matter of human nature, as we get comfortable with what is familiar, but in marriage, you absolutely should never come to a place where you take your partner for granted.

Compliments

When the going gets rough, and his not so great attributes come forward, rather than focusing on the negative, try switching gears, and point out the positive stuff instead.

Let go of the fantasy

Have realistic expectations and do not fall victim to the fairy tale you may find yourself sorely disappointed. This is not only one of the most important keys to a successful marriage but plays a massive role in your happiness as an individual too.

Offer grace to each other

Too often, we hold grudges or harbor anger with our partners rather than offering them that same grace that flows so easily in many other areas of our lives.

Have patience for each other

We often show our worst sides to our partner because we are comfortable and safe with them. That can often look like frustration and a severe lack of patience.

Respect each other 

When you are out and about professionally or socially, respect your partner by singing their praises in conversations. Also, respect your partner through your actions, both in public and private.

Encourage each other

When your partner shares their goals and resolutions with you, please encourage them to accomplish them. Make their goals as necessary as your own.

Pray together

Before bed each night or right after you tuck the little ones into bed and say prayers with them, pray with your partner.