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💔 What I Learned After My First Heartbreak (Even If It Wasn’t Love-Love)
Let’s gooo! 💔➡️💪
I won’t lie — when I first caught feelings, I thought it was something small. But that one small feeling enter deep like swimming pool 😂
We started as friends. The kind of chats wey dey sweet you for body. He would say good morning, check on me, even call me “my queen” sometimes.
You know that kind friendship that slowly turns into talking every day? Yeah, that one.
But suddenly, he just started changing. Replies became dry. No more voice notes, no more checking up. I would be online waiting for “hi” that never came.
Until one day, I saw him posting another girl on his status with love emojis 💔
Omo, my chest! I won’t even lie, I cried small — okay maybe not small 😅
I felt stupid. I kept asking myself questions:
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Was I not enough?
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Did I do something wrong?
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Why didn’t he just tell me?
💡 Lessons I Learned
With time, I healed. Slowly, not suddenly. And here’s what that heartbreak taught me:
1️⃣ Never lose yourself in someone’s attention.
When they stop giving it, you’ll feel empty.
2️⃣ If they really like you, you won’t need to force it.
Love doesn’t hide. It shows.
3️⃣ Don’t let one heartbreak define your worth.
You are beautiful, valuable, and you deserve love that is consistent and clear.
4️⃣ Your peace is more important than someone’s “maybe.”
If it’s confusing, it’s probably not worth it.
5️⃣ God’s timing is best.
There’s more to come. Real love will find you when you’re ready — not when you’re desperate.
💖 Final Thoughts
Now, I smile when I think about it.
Not because it didn’t hurt — but because I grew.
It taught me to protect my heart, trust my gut, and love myself more.
To any teen girl going through this right now, just know:
You’re not alone. And you will heal.
One day, you’ll look back and say:
“That was my lesson, not my end.” 💖
✍️ Written by: A Teen Who Survived Her First Heartbreak and Is Glowing Now (Preciousa)
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