WHEN TO GET MARRIED

 

WHEN TO GET MARRIED

For the young men of my generation, it is so easy to get carried away by your close friends and your colleagues getting married around you. It's so easy to feel intimidated that your age mates and even those young men you were far ahead of in class during your school days are all getting married while you are not even preparing for marriage at all. 

 

My advice is very simple, only fools get married when they lack the means of livelihood. Only fools would go add another mouth to their own mouth that has not been properly fed. Don't be deceived, those pressuring you to go get married would not be around to bear the financial burden associated with having a wife at home. 

Remember! God created Adam and the first thing He gave him was work ( to name all the animals) before giving him Eve (a wife). So having a means of livelihood should come before marrying a wife, there is no two ways about it. Young man, go get your self a job before putting ring on her finger. If you make the mistake of getting married without a job, hell would be a joke compared to what would befall your marriage.

Bewise! Take your time, plan your life properly and get married at your own convinient time.

James Patrick

+2348138534313

jamesboro1987@gmail.com

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James Patrick is a graduate of political Science from the famous and prestigious Ahmadu Bello University Zaria. He is a poet, a creative writer, a teacher. He loves everything good but hates everything bad.