WHY MANY SUCCESSFUL SINGLE LADIES FIND IT DIFFICULT TO GET MARRIED

WHY MANY SUCCESSFUL SINGLE LADIES FIND IT DIFFICULT TO GET MARRIED

No, it is not because you are successful.

No, it is not because men are intimidated by your success.

Do you want to know why? Get a chair.

The reason is a little more complicated than we usually make it seem. So you need to follow me closely.

There is a mathematical side to this and I have shared it before. So I will not dwell too much on the mathematical side. What I want to focus on is the other side.

Mathematically, it takes time to be successful at anything. Let's say we take 10 years as a baseline.

You start your career at 25 and you are now successful. But you are now 35.

Traditionally, women marry up. So you want an older man (37 and above) and more successful. There are just two problems.

Problem 1: Most of the men above 37 and successful are already married. They got married BEFORE they became successful.

Problem 2: The few who are still single and successful want younger women with standing breasts and low body count. I hate to tell you but a woman's past matters to a man.

Those two problems have significantly reduced the number of men available to you and that meet your criteria.

So, that is the mathematical reason.

Now to the main gist.

Becoming financially successful at anything requires masculine energy. Feminine energy CANNOT bring success. You can quote me anywhere.

The successful palm oil seller who has made money from selling palm oil had to switch from feminine energy to masculine energy at some point in their lives.

Whether as a palm oil seller or as the head of a corporate organization, you need masculine energy to succeed.

The problem is, unlike the married career-focused lady who has a home to help her balance her energy and switch from masculine to feminine energy as needed, the single career-focused lady does not have that check in her life.

What then happens is that over time, she becomes enveloped in masculine energy which is what she needs to succeed but is repulsive to men.

Men love to interact with her at work but distance themselves from her outside of work because men are not attracted to women with masculine energy.

But she thinks it is her success that is intimidating men because she cannot see herself from outside when in reality, men see another man when they try to come close.

It is safer for a woman to marry early and pursue financial success from the confines of her marriage than to pursue financial success first and hope to get married later.

All you need is the right knowledge to be able to read men so you marry someone who is a right fit for you. Someone who will not clip your wings.