Chibuike

This piece argues that a deliberate period of focusing solely on oneself, rather than pursuing romantic relationships, is not an act of isolation but one of profound self-investment. It posits that true personal fulfillment, clarity of purpose, and a strong sense of identity are built in the space we create for ourselves, free from the compromises and distractions of a partnership. By choosing to "have nothing to do with relationships," you are choosing to build an unshakable foundation from which all future connections—romantic or otherwise—will be healthier and more authentic.