EVEYTHING MOVES ON.

Nothing stays forever, right? 

We all think that things might stay like this always. The good loyal friends we have, the great healthy relationships that goes more than a year, our loving parents, many other things. But have we ever thought that things might not stay the same as they are now? Have you ever thought that having a crush on someone might change once they do something that turns us off. It's not about being negative at this point. I just want to emphasize that things might not stay the same - the peoples, the situations, the romance, etc. They might vanish, all of a sudden. 

I'll tell you my life as an example for you: I had a friend who was very close to me, she was very sweet and kind. One day she misunderstood something and stopped talking to me suddenly, without any single notice. I was sad and very miserable. But I slowly came back to my track and focused on my things much later. It created a great impact on me that I still have no guts to trust any friends to become close with them. To mention, it's been 20 years after I was left like that. And still, I have no idea why she stopped talking to me. 

And my recent experience is that- There was a boy who kept staring at me. I am a complete introvert who is an expert in observing things around me. I noticed him and he slowly did everything that he could do to get close to me. I found it really endearing as a quiet girl, it was my first time being approached gently and slowly like that. He slowly started to talk to me and got closer and closer as each week passed. And suddenly one day, I found him not staring, not interested and completely detached. Yeah, since it's my second time being treated like this, to be honest, I was lowkey ready for this. so it didn't hurt me at all. I continued as usually with my life.

What I actually wanted to tell is, Things might stay or may not stay as you expect it to be. Remember to continue with your life as how you did before that person/situation existed. Don't stay sad and stagnated in that position for something they did. 

STAY HAPPY AND LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU LOVE ANYTHING ELSE.

Yours sincerely, 

A quiet voice in the crowd. 💗