Take a break of a day or two, without calling or texting that woman in your relationship. See whether you are the only one trying to water that flower to blossom that would have died long ago. I would like to call it the evaluation or appraisal Index of a relationship. If for the next 48 hours, she doesn't look for you by either call or text, you know where you stand in her life. You don't need me to write you paragraphs here that you should be running to the mountains to seek Allah's guidance on getting yourself another woman. If she does look for you, you also don't need me to tell you you are safe and your relationship is working.
This break is very essential and healthy. It's what meditation is to the daily hustle and bustle of any human life. It's what asceticism to the life of a Monk. It will reboot your system and make you realise where you are going wrong. Employing it only Once or twice every month is healthy. Employ it.
Anyway, if you are a man and you are not visiting the gym, you are missing a lot in life. Woe unto you.
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