Being single and feeling lonely can suck right ? We all want to love and be loved back .Here are 20 tips to help you attract love .
1.LOVE YOURSELF WELL ENOUGH .
Truth is that you cannot attract what you don't have .If you can't love yourself ,how do you expect another to love you ? Love is contagious ,once you love yourself enough ,you teach others to easily love you too .
2. BE CONFIDENT ,WORK ON YOUR SELF ESTEEM !
Nothing is attractive in a person like confidence .Believe that you are amazing and people will see you as amazing ! Sadly if you believe you suck ,people will see you as same .Walk with your head up high. Believe within you that you are one of the best things that happened to humanity .Do good a lot , add to people's life ,this boosts your self esteem .When you know that you are being viewed as a super hero by a lot of people ,you feel good about yourself because in reality ,you are good !
3.AVOID NEGATIVE PEOPLE !
Avoid people who put you down or put other people down and don't be that kind of person either ! Stay far away from people who always have something negative to say about others or situations .Avoid them because they will attract negativity to your life .Be surrounded more with people with positive mindset
4. BE THE BEST VERSION OF YOURSELF ALWAYS
We are a continous work in progress .Work on yourself daily ,get rid of bad habits ,acquire skills and certificates ,upgrade yourself ! Drop bad habits ,pick up good ones !
5. BE HAPPY.
Being happy will attract happiness and joy to your life ,who doesn't want to be associated with a happy person ?
6 .BE CONTENTED
If you do not appreciate the little things you have been blessed with ,when the big ones come ,you will still not be contented .Ingratitude prevents us from being blessed any further .
7.BE GRATEFUL
Gratitude will help you feel more positive emotions, improve your health especially mental health , build strong relationships .You display a positive vibe when you are full of gratitude and this attracts people and love to you .Look around you ,there are lots of reasons to be grateful ,your health ,provisions ,abilities etc Be thankful for those and you will attract your heart desires .
8. LET GO OF WHAT YOU DON'T WANT
Let go of situations ,mindset ,thoughts ,people ,things that you don't want. Do not think about them because we manifest what we think of most of the time . Get rid of the mentality that you are unlovable or might never find love ,like I said ,we manifest our thoughts most of the time .
9.MANIFEST THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE
You are a person who deserves love and will get one .Behave like one and it will easily become a reality .
10.LOOK FOR FRIENDSHIP FIRST
Be bold to approach people for friendship .You don't have to ask for love or anything romantic ...Start with friendship and have them fall in love with your beautiful personality .
11.KNOW YOUR DEAL BREAKERS AND STICK TO THEM
Don't be an o yes kind of person ,don't be that person who puts up with every nasty behaviour .Don't be that person whom people don't respect enough to behave well around .Have your values and stick to them ,have people respect them too .Know your deal breakers and stick to them . People respect and value you when you give yourself value .
12. BE OUTGOING
Be social ,don't be rigid .Be free and easy to get along with .Develop a sweet attitude .Have people be comfortable and free around you .
13.BE HUMBLE
Nobody likes an arrogant person .Be humble and let people love you for your humility .Nevertheless never let anyone take your humility for cowardice .
14.BUILD A SUPPORTIVE NETWORK.
Nothing beats a supportive network ,people who will recommend you and speak well of you .I have seen cases where a man is looking for a wife and a girl's friends are asked about the girl and they drop something nasty in order to discourage the young man . Be very intentional about who is in your circle .
15.PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE MORE OFTEN.
Make yourself visible .Go out more often .Post on social media ,let people see you .Do not hide yourself and expect people to know about you .
16.READ SOME SELF HELP BOOKS.
A book increases your knowledge and your knowledge will increase your wisdom which will help you to attract better .
17.TRY TO BE LESS JUDGMENTAL
Decide to be loving and understand that no one is perfect including yourself .Love more than you judge . Understand that there is a story behind every flaw .Yes stay away from flaws that takes your peace away but you can do that without being judgemental !
18.PAY ATTENTION TO THE VIBES YOU'RE GIVING OFF
What's your attitude like ? Do you think you need any adjustments ? Remember to keep working on yourself .
19.GET RID OF ANY POTENTIAL PHYSICAL BLOCKS .
If there is anything you know that can be a hinderance to your being loved ,get rid of it if its in your hands .
20. BELIEVE
Most importantly , believe at any cost that you’re going to find love; love is meant for you and it will come to you ,remember we become whatever we believe strongly in .
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