Ridwanullah Abdulganiyy
I feel so bad when I hear that people are committing suicide because of challenges, my question for them is that; Is death the best solution for facing challenges?
SUICIDE IS NOT THE ANSWER
Challenges are normal things to all human beings to know how strong they are. Everyone will face challenges but those who conqured it are the "Heroes".
Bob Riley says "Hard times don't create Heroes. It is during the hard times when the "hero" within us is revealed". All the roads that lead to success are not easy and anyone who would succeed in this life need to pass through some challenges.
Commting suicide is not the best decision, one should rather look for ways to solve the problems.
Yoruba people always say " Eni ti o ba ma ga, ese re ma tinrin" meaning anyone that would be great in life will sacrifice some things and we need to face some challenges so as to know the value of the achievement.
All those people we see as role models or successful men and women today have also pass through some challenges but their ability not to relent and be able to overcome the circumstances make them great and honoured today.
Examples of those people in Nigeria are Former President Olusegun Obasanjo, Former President Goodluck Jonathan, Aliko Dangote, Femi Otedola, Mrs Folorunsho Alakija, Sen. Remi Tinubu, among others.
These people didn't achieve all what they have today in a day and they encountered some challenges before they became successful.
How do you solve challenges?. Here are some steps to solve challenges.
Identify the issues.
Be clear about what the problem is. ...
Understand everyone's interests. ...
List the possible solutions (options) ...
Evaluate the options. ...
Select an option or options. ...
Document the agreement(s). ...
Agree on contingencies, monitoring, and evaluation.
Sometimes, our lives are full of ups and downs and a way out seems impossible, but never the less, suicide is never an option!
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