Who said cleaning and cooking is only the woman’s role?

For generations, society has promoted the idea that cleaning, cooking, and managing the home are solely a woman’s responsibility. These outdated gender roles were built on tradition, not fairness, and no longer reflect the realities or values of modern life. Today, more people are questioning these assumptions—and rightfully so.

Household responsibilities are not determined by gender, but by shared responsibilities, mutual respect, and personal capability. Both men and women live in the home, eat the meals, and benefit from a clean, organized space. So why should only women be expected to maintain it?

In dual-income households, women are often still expected to carry the burden of domestic duties after a full day of work. This imbalance leads to stress, burnout, and inequality in relationships. On the other hand, when men actively share in household responsibilities, it strengthens partnerships and sets a healthy example for children, teaching them that chores are a shared duty—not a gendered task.

The idea that cooking and cleaning are “women’s work” is not only unfair—it limits men as well. Cooking is a life skill, not a gender role. A man who can cook and clean is not less masculine; he’s independent, responsible, and respectful of his partner and home.

Challenging stereotypes starts at home. Parents should teach boys and girls equally about household chores, promoting fairness and teamwork. In relationships, communication and balance are key. No task should fall to someone simply because of their gender.

So, who said cleaning and cooking is only the woman’s role? A society clinging to old ideas. It’s time to change that narrative and embrace equality—not just in public life, but within our own homes. After all, respect and responsibility know no gender.