Years before I began dating, I used to to think that the first person to open your heart is your everything.
They are the only one you should trust, confide in, and the only person you are supposed to relate with for the rest of your life. I began dating and the rules of game started changing.
With such a preconceived mentality, I was too young and inexperienced until I learned a lifelong lesson.
Rushing into many different relationships doesn't help. Sometimes you can be trapped unknowingly and waste valuable years in a relationship that doesnt work.
There are many fundamental things to learn about love, relationships and marriage.
Most important of all, not all relationships are meant to last forever. Some relationships teach us lessons and to make us strong. These are mainly through breakups, where you are promised heaven on earth, then after some short-term enjoyment you are hurt and dumped.
You only come to discover that you fell in love carelessly with someone who doesn't love or care. Breakups can give you so many sleepless nights and stressful days.
Maybe the relationship had left you a helpless mother nursing a fatherless baby or struggling alone to make ends meet inquest to bring up the child.
Sometimes, you become a laughing stock among your friends. My dear, you can't force someone to stay if they are determined to walk away. If you do, they will take advantage of you and hurt you the more.
Love is given freely by a willing heart without asking for anything in return. If you cling to a person who doesn't love you, believe me or not, they will hurt you more in the near future.
So, let them go and find the person who really loves you. If your love was meant to last, trust me, they will come back to you in a more reformed person.
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