Do not choose a wrong girl as wife

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I'm not getting married! Let whoever wants to get married do it!

I've had enough! I've never seen such a hypocritical person!

A while ago, my girlfriend and I reached an agreement.

To get married, she wanted me to buy a house and move out.

The key point was that the house had to be near her house.

The amenities there are indeed quite good.

But the prices are outrageously expensive!

Luckily, Xinqing'an helped me a lot back then.

Otherwise, I wouldn't have been able to even afford the down payment.

I thought this was the beginning of our happiness.

I never imagined it was just her relentless pressure.

Tonight, my girlfriend came over from her house.

She casually said,

"I'm worried my mom will be lonely, so she agreed to move in with us."

She added,

"The master bedroom's location is suitable for my mom; the fortune teller said it'll be good for her health."

I was stunned.

The master bedroom? That's our bedroom!

Before I could even react... She started gesturing again:

"Don't use the small space next to the garage as your personal storage room."

"My brother needs a place to park his motorcycle when he gets home from school."

"And the nursery, convert it into a guest room for my brother."

"Anyway, I'm not in a rush to have a baby, so it doesn't matter."

She even went so far as to brush me off:

"I'll tell my brother not to smoke in the room; there's an alarm in the house."

I couldn't take it anymore and asked her directly:

"You mean I have to give up my master bedroom for your mom?"

"My personal space for your brother?"

"Why should your whole family move into my house?"

I refused outright, without the slightest hesitation.

My girlfriend immediately exploded, yelling:

"You don't want to? Then this wedding is off!"

I got angry too: "Fine, then! Who's afraid of who?"

Why this double standard?

You want me to separate from my family, you don't want me to live with my parents.

But you expect me to accept your whole family moving in without complaint? This is utterly incomprehensible!

At noon, my girlfriend texted me.

Without a hint of apology, she instead accused me:

"You were so rude to refuse my mom like that yesterday!"

"My brother doesn't need to come and live here, nor does he need to take up your space."

"But my salary has to cover his rent."

"Otherwise, he'll be under too much financial pressure and the rent will kill him."

I replied directly:

"If you want to talk to him, you and your mom should talk to my parents."

"My parents contributed a lot to this house."

She kept repeating:

"They're your parents, you should handle that yourself!"

"How you spend your salary is your decision!" I just laughed.

Doesn't she know what kind of person her brother is?

He daydreams every day about being a boss and making a fortune.

But he doesn't even have the money to buy a 500,000 yuan shop.

He goes to work whenever he feels like it, skipping work whenever he wants.

He likes to interrupt his supervisor and is unruly.

He only ever leaves work on time, never arrives on time.

He dislikes reading and loves to use his age to lecture people, always losing the argument.

Why should I support such a good-for-nothing?

That afternoon, my girlfriend's mother called.

After going around in circles, the main point was:

"My daughter asked me to move in, but I didn't want the master bedroom."

"Don't fall out with her; fate is a strange thing."

Ha, do you think I don't understand?

She's just afraid I'll slip away, like a cooked duck.

I replied directly:

"If she hasn't realized where she went wrong,"

"This marriage is off!"

After hanging up, I texted my girlfriend:

"Let's cool off for a while. If we can't reach an agreement, let's part amicably."

The next day at noon, I received a call from the wedding cake shop.

They were confirming the remittance for the wedding cakes.

I was stunned. Shouldn't they have already sent the money?

I apologized to the cake shop and said I would send the money as soon as possible.

After hanging up, I immediately called my girlfriend to confirm.

On the phone, she hesitated for a long time.

Finally, she admitted: she had "accidentally" spent the money for the wedding cakes.

And she had forgotten to transfer the money!

I was furious and bluntly said:

"I'm giving you one hour to transfer the money right now."

"Otherwise, it means you never intended to get married."

"This wedding is off!"

At 3 PM, I called the bakery to confirm.

There was still no transfer record.

I didn't say anything more, just asked for the account number and amount.

I immediately transferred the money, and also changed the delivery address to my home.

Before leaving work, the bakery texted to say they received the money.

That evening, I was playing basketball.

My girlfriend called, screaming hysterically:

"Why did the bakery say the delivery address changed? What do you mean?"

"I finally managed to scrape together the money, and you paid first and then changed the address?"

"I chose those wedding cookies! You have no right to take them!"

I scoffed and replied:

"That bakery, wasn't it chosen by one of your relatives' kids for their engagement?"

"Because it was hard to order, you insisted on ordering, and even specifically chose the limited-edition seasonal double-layered gift box."

"Now, the wedding cookies I paid for are being delivered to my house, is there a problem?"

And then, nothing more.

I hung up immediately.

I blacklisted all her related phone numbers.

As for those wedding cookies?

I'll give them to my relatives for the New Year, isn't that better?

Anyway, she's scraped together the money now.

If she wants them, she can order them herself!

If she has anyone to blame, it's because she used my information with the bakery in the first place.

Looking back now, I'm so glad I woke up in time.

It's a blessing not to marry the wrong person,

and even more fortunate not to marry the wrong person!

With a girlfriend like that, and a family like that,

even if we got married, it would only lead to endless chaos.