A relationship is one that initially involves a man and a woman who voluntarily, mutually and of their own free will comfortably entered into it.
At this stage, they are both happy to be in each others company and enjoy their time together. They or at least one of the parties hope that it will work out and lead to a permanent relationship where they can get married, build a home together and raise kids in due course
Unfortunately along the line, one of the partners may notice some behavioural changes in the other party that is contrary to how he used to be. After much efforts to restore the situation without success, it is better to read the hand writing on the wall and quit the relationship with your dignity. He might not come out outrightly to tell you that he does not wish to continue with the relationship. Action at times speak louder than words. Don't pitifully cling to him while making excuses for him and trying to change his mindset. In the long - run, the outcome will still not be favourable as he is not ready to continue with the relationship. Just take a walk with your head held high and your self respect intact. No matter how painful the break up will be to you, just quit . No need hanging unto what is no longer there.Time is the greatest healer and tomorrow is full of better prospects. Don't continue knocking on a closed door as there is no future in that relationship. These glaring signs are red alerts for you to take that bold overdo step:
• Absence of the initial love and camaraderie
• He suddenly and easily becomes aggressive and confrontational
• Reduces the rate of communication and now avoids spending time with you
• Seems to you as if you are always apologising. Always trying to justify his actions towards you
• He have stopped contacting you first. Now, the calls mostly come from you. He does not even return your missed calls
• Have not introduced you to his real freinds or family even after so long. Always chooses friends over you
• He dodges and clamps up whenever you raise issues of commitment. Seems you are the only one making future plans
• Most times, he keeps you waiting and cancels appointments repeatedly
• He flirts even in your presence
• He have stopped showing any sign of jealousy when he sees you with the opposite sex
• Always lying now and can't even look you in the eye anymore
• He breadcrumbs you while asking for a lot of favours from you
• He is reluctant to compromise
• No longer cares about your views, aspirations and concerns. He is not ready to partner with you on issues
• Does not show as much respect as before and does not tolerate your mistakes now no matter how small and unintentional
• Now talks frequently and praises his ex to your face just to irritate and provoke you
• Above all, he now shys away from any form of physical intimacy with you.
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