We all love and want the lovish and luxurios life, but people do not know how to hustle for that king of life. The new generation catergorises love by the things a man does for you in the relationship more that the actual love they recive from the man.
And men do not mind spending their money on any girl as long they'll be having sec with them, which poses the question are women dating because thay are hungry and they want a lifestyle they cannot afford therefore uses men for that lifestyle? Are men dating simply because of lust? Is it because they want to feed their sexual desires?
Does love still even excist in the new generation? I mean the same love that our great-grand parent and grandparents had. Is it beause the older generation was never given a chance to choose who they love but chosen by their parents?,
then in cases like this they learned to love the person choosen for them to a point that they are able to love and remain loyal to their husbands even if they are far from them. The love from the older generation was genuin and not forced after a couple and their families rich an aggreement and get the two lovers married.
These days relationships are based on material which is why you would find a couple with an age gap of +20 years in between. Young women date because they are unable to afford certain desired lifestyles and they want to live the lovish fake life but that comes wth a lot of disadvantages as they are sometimes not respected in those relationships and often have no say over their bodies and how thay want to be treated. This goes to as far as tolarating abuse because they know they have no where to go and no one to provide the things they want bu to stay and endure the abuse.
Older men take advantage of the gilrs and lure them with money, promise them heaven and earth but deliver non of those. They abuse these young girls sexually, mentally and physicall and bling them with money. weekend get aways and shopping of expensive brands so they do not report the abuses. also lacking and growing in an enviroment that does not have love and affection causes young girls to be going around looking for that love and affection in all the wrong places.
Parents wshould love their children and warn them of the dangers of dating older men and actually teach them what exaclty love is. Also boy need to be taught from an early age that taking advantage of a girl because of the power or rather because of the things you do for them is wrong.
There should be laws against certain age gaps beween couple to avoid abuse and violance in relationships, i do not know how but i am sure the government can come up with something to preotect the victims of this.
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