IT TAKES A LOT OF STRENGTH TO SAY I'M SORRY:
So you just had a fight with your partner, you were both wrong and you are now waiting for who will knock the door first and say "hey babe, I'm sorry".
Who will make the first move?
Most often, people think that the first to make the "I'm sorry move" is the weak or even the guilty one.
Being privileged to grow up with a lot of couples, i have seen them use the weapon of not talking to each other after a fight. That silence can kill any relationship faster than the disagreements.
The fact being that most partners see the first to say I'm sorry as the weak or the guilty one.
Lots of relationships have crashed based on this premise.
Sincerely I'm always the first to apologize once i see i was wrong or reacted badly and i don't see this as any weakness.
It takes a lot of strength to say I'm sorry and embrace peace.
The ability to fight and make up as a couple is human, do not see this as weakness. I agree that it can be very painful being the first to break the silence especially when you feel you are not the one at fault. It is easier to say sorry immediately after a fight than say sorry the next or couple of days after. It gets more difficult as the days go by.
Also, remember that this won't be the end of your fights and arguments. As long as you are together there will always be disagreements.
It's the human nature to disagree but if you both open an honest communication, you can 80% of the time avoid unnecessary disagreements.
Reflect on this words and be fast to say "I'm sorry" whenever you are in the wrong and embrace peace and love 💋
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