Marriage is an institution that was initiated by God. He blessed it and ordained it. In today's world marriage has become like employment contract where people want to ONLY tasted the waters but shy away from the storms.
Marriage union is for thick and thin and till death tills you apart. The following are key factors to successful marriage
1. Love
This is the most key factor in marriage.Love carries mojorly all the other factors as without love its all invain to live together and enjoy marriage.Every man should understand and know that before He proposed to her spouse,he first fall into love with her.
2. faithfulness
This follows as the second after love the first principal.It should be between couples and be seen in each and every activity.May it be finances,social life, daily life it should be demonstrated.
3. Openness
Couples should be open for every activity they do.No one should keep his/her spouse from his or her secrets and have a secret property anywhere as this will definately lead to the breakage of marriage and just as the english men put "the small crows destroys a great farm" this small things we see in marriage if not handled while they are prematurely if we wait them to reach the maturity divorce will have resulted.
4. Forgiviness
Every couple should forgive one another.Saying "am sorry" doesnt decrement your status as a man or woman of the house. No one is perfect at all.
No one should retire to bed before asking for forgiviness from his partner. By doing this this builds a solid marriage foundation that cannot be breaked by anything
5. Wisdom
This is based on how your make yoru daily decisions and also on how you handle your challenges and problems.Wisdom should be seen in decision making and also consulting one another is another vital key of successful marriage
6. Gratitude
Couple should say "thank you" to one another when done right thing.Remember you started the family as two but after a while you were blessed with children.The life you live as couple matters alot before children.
If you quarrel you will have no say to tell your daughter or son when you will hear them quarreling daily with his wife or her husband. When served tea by your spouse say "thank you" when your wife irons your clothes say also "thank you"
7. Submission
This is the last and not least. The Bible commands wives to submissive to their husbands and husbands to love their wives just like Christ loved the Church.
Be submissive to your husband does not ONLY please him only BUT IT PLEASES GOD ALOT.
Wives learn to be submissive daily to yoru husbands and you shall see how how men loves it to have a submissive wife who obeys and follows instructions
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