I happen to be a teacher for kids in my church and for me its a God given talent and i end up meeting a lot of kids who tell me lots of thing that hapen in there homes.
Now this particular one cought my attention .This are 2 twins whose parent were separated and as they were growing they lived with there mother most of there life and when they joined secondy school there mother sent them to there father so he can take care of there secondary education
There father loved them ,took good care of them amd whatever they needed he provided but the twins hated there father because there mother had poison there mind against there father.
So this particular day on our whatsap group we were having fun chatting and then boom one of the twins said he hates his father with a passion. It didnt sound nice to me so i went to her personal whatsap and engaged her on why she had to say lots of bad things about her father. To cut the long story shop it was her mom who had poisoned there mind about there father. As a teacher i had to advice this two girls and let them know that all there parent are good people however much they are not together but are still there parent
After my advice to the twins the girls changed and are now in good terms with there father. Till today they keep saying thank you to me for helping them
But this is to any parent out there .However toxic your relationship or marriage is kindly do not include your children in it.Children are stressed when it comes to choosing who is good and who is bad.
Lots of them end up drug addicts or drankards just to avoid the same that there parents give them .Its better to settle any fights between two adults away from the children.
Involving the children at times destroys a child future or relationship and he or she may behave as the parent did .Remember whatever you do as a parent a child would follow.
Grow a generation that would be of value to the new generation and who can change the world to be a better place
Let be the parents our children what to emulate and be there role model
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