Prolong courtship

When can one say a courtship is prolong? The answer is this. A courtship is said to be prolonged when it's more than 2 years. I believe that 2 years is enough for the man and the lady to know each other better if they can actually live together as husband and wife. Besides one can hide character for a long time in order to get what he or she wants and after that the character begins to show. Courtship is a process whereby an adult male and female tends to know each other well so as to eventually get married. One can not actually know his or her partner 100%. Even in marriages couples still learn and try to understand each other very well. If prolong courtship is the best, so many marriages won't be broken today. I have seen courtship that lasted for 10years and when they finally got married they kept having issues upon issues and couldn't stay together anymore. Now who did it affect? The lady. Because as at that time her age has gone and she wasn't looking attractive anymore. But the man whether looking young or not still got married again to another woman and a young and beautiful one for that matter. If a girl court with a guy it should be at least 2 years if he isn't taking any step, the girl should quit that's my advice for the ladies.