Maturity is an important stage in every person's life. That's when we realize that no one is still by our side to teach us the basic things in life. Because when we grow up, we are fully equipped with skills and experiences from school to be able to face the challenges in life. When we grow up, that's when we feel the most lonely and tired. At that time, tears can only relieve our sadness but cannot solve the problems we have encountered for us. That means we ourselves have to face problems and problems in life, no one can intervene on our behalf to do those things.
Mature in communication. That's when we read the other person's thoughts in their eyes, what the other person wants and needs us to do. A frown, a thoughtful eye, a moment of absent-mindedness also makes us think a lot about what the other person wants. So the ability to read the other person through their eyes is very necessary for each of us.
In love, it seems romantic and dreamy but is actually very realistic and fair. Today your lover can give you gift packages, sweet words of love, and seductive vows to promise the moon and stars, but tomorrow when you no longer love them, there will be quarrels and arguments. arguments, and vulgar scuffles. Who said love is as beautiful as a dream? In reality, it only exists in books and novels, but in real life it is extremely cruel.
Maturity is formed at work. Every new person in the profession is naive, immature, and easily taken advantage of. But when competing for rights, no one is willing to yield to anyone else, everyone wants to take the rights for themselves. Friendship and camaraderie are replaced by rights, money, and material things. All strategies and work plans are kept secret until the last minute, including personnel decisions or decisions on salary increases, promotions, transfers, and promotions are kept secret until the last minute. And no one knows the secret behind the stories of rewards and promotions. Everyone needs to have relationships, have ingenuity, and even be a little "naughty" at work, because the office environment is a fiercely competitive environment, where big fish eat small fish. No one is willing to compromise with anyone else, no one trusts anyone else, so stabbing each other in the back and hitting each other with sticks and wheels is a common thing. One person's pain is another person's joy, one person's failure is a stepping stone for another to move forward, it's extremely sad and brutal. So how can a person who is not yet mature in all aspects have enough strength and intelligence to confront those things? The answer is thanks to observation, ability, and a little bit of luck that we have. Without the above factors, it seems like we have lost painfully to our competitors. , trample on me to get ahead.
Trưởng thành là lúc ta tỉnh táo đối mặt với thực tế, tỉnh táo sử dụng đồng tiền ta kiếm ra được, không còn những tháng ngày tiêu xài vô tư, phung phí, lãng phí tiền bạc một cách vô ích. Tiền đối với người trưởng thành thực sự quan trọng, bởi nó giải quyết được nhiều mặt của cuộc sống: đi sinh nhật, đi ăn đám cưới, đi họp lớp, đi thôi nôi, đi học… tất cả những điều đó được giải quyết bằng tiền để có mối quan hệ tốt. Có tiền con người ta sẽ có nhiều mối quan hệ và nhiều lợi lộc hơn, nhờ có tiền con người đôi khi cảm thấy tự tin và mạnh mẽ hơn nhiều lần. Nhiều người trưởng thành dựa vào đồng tiền để sống, để đánh bóng chính bản thân mình, nhưng khi không có tiền hết tiền thì bản thân cảm thấy trống rỗng, mệt mỏi và tức giận vô cớ với cả thế giới. Khi người trưởng thành kiếm được tiền, cũng là lúc phải đau đầu khi đối mặt với nhiều khoản phải chi tiêu, tiêu dùng hàng ngày, lúc đó những khoản chi tiêu vẩn vơ sẽ được thay thế bằng những khoản chi tiêu thực tế và thiết thực hơn.
The more each of us matures, the more we cherish relationships, because thanks to each relationship, we can have a certain position in society, be proficient at work and lose the inherent fear from many years of life. hour. For adults, life is extremely realistic, with no room for ambiguity or fantasy. Valuable relationships are what each person strives for. Thanks to those relationships, each of us learns many things and performs many tasks that we never thought possible when we were young. position. Adults have a different way of thinking and working at work than people who have just graduated from school or have worked for a few years. Think and live with a far-sighted vision, no longer short-sighted and obscure like in the past.
Adulthood can be seen as a gift when the price to pay for maturity is too high, people will wake up and will no longer have illusions about many things in life. For them, being able to live a useful day is a day of contentment. there. Sometimes the simple joy of adulthood is just a social meeting with friends after a long time apart, sipping a cake with a freshly brewed cup of coffee, or reading a book in the most relaxed state. The older people get, the more regrets they have in life, the more they cherish their current relationships, they try their best for the future ahead and they "pin" in their hearts those who hurt them. and heavy losses. The price of maturity is too expensive and tiring. By the time we realize it, we have nothing left. Growing up is a painful and lonely journey. Maturity and maturity will appear on the faces, on the attitudes, and on the behavior of people who have gone through the storms of life. For them, it is embarrassing and miserable, but it is something they must do. Accept and overcome to continue living, continue creating, continue working, continue your goals.
For adults, all words and dreams are fanciful and unrealistic!
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