The reason for the divorce was her son's best friend. I had always considered her best friend positive before marriage. I was positive even a year after marriage. Not everyone says that boys and girls can never be best friends. Whatever happens is a joke. I didn't believe it before. But now...
I took a lot of care of her, respected her, loved her more than life. That's why she married me.
I work in a private company and she works as a nurse in a hospital (I'll keep her name a secret). I used to get jealous of her best friend sometimes. Whenever I saw her, she would post about her and praise me. One day, I directly told her that I don't like hanging out with your best friend. After arguing about this, I didn't have any contact with her for almost a month. She used to talk about her friend as if she was an angel. After the argument, after many requests, everything was fine. Sometimes she would go for a bike ride with her best friend, of course, she would share this on the day post. I think whatever she does, she will do it. I will fix it after marriage. Her best friend was also her college friend. Now we work together.
Before marriage, she went to Dhaka once for a nursing exam. I asked who she was going with. She was talking to her friends. Then after a long time, I saw a pic of her friend on her messenger. Where she is lying on her son's shoulder in the train, lying on his lap in the cabin. Seeing all this, I realized that there was no ground under my feet. They were arguing, keeping their head on her shoulder, leaving her on his lap, so what happened? She showed me logic, this could happen because she was sleepy, blah blah. So I said, "Mom, why did you lie to me at that time and go with your girlfriend?" Later, she admitted it and apologized and said it wouldn't happen again. She made a lot of mistakes, blah blah. Then, after many things, we got married. There is something nice here. She wanted to get married in a cabin for very little money.
Both of our families are self-sufficient. No one is less than the other. We got married in a cabin with a cash price of one lakh taka on her words. Her good sides are endless. The only problem is with her best friend. I don't like hanging out with her friends. That's why they call me toxic, saying I'm not updated. 😅
I never lacked anything from her in my life. I loved her a lot. She is my very dear, very dear person. So I used to tolerate everything and accept it. If I was with her, I would forget everything in the world. I wouldn't remember anything anymore. But today, due to two incidents in 15 days, we are on the verge of separation. There are talks of divorce. Both the incidents are about her best friend. Do you know what her friend is gifting her? A house, feminine wash, Pink Lady Secret soap, bra, pads. I mean, only guys like me will understand how it feels. Just imagine if your friend gifted all these to your wife and what would you have done then. There was a lot of fighting over these. She said, did she do this because she gave all these? When I said this, I broke the mirror with my hand. Then she cooled down and decided to return them. She didn't return them for a long time. Later, I threw them all away. I explained to her that she should not have any contact with her friend. I explained a lot. She said don't keep them anymore. I was saying that if I see her, there is news. She immediately said, what will you do? Divorce her? She said, I deserve a cabin for 10 lakhs and I am getting married for only 1 lakhs, you think I am cheap. I was surprised. Where did she come from? I'm just saying that you will lose me for the rest of your life if you disobey me. She also became silent. Things started going well. A few days later, she went to her friend's wedding. I went there on the wedding day. She left a day early. I got connected to her friend's brother on Facebook. I was seeing her friend at the wedding. I saw my wife avoiding him.
A few days after returning from the wedding, I found a video of turmeric on my wife's friend's brother's ID. In the video, I saw my wife hugging her tightly from behind and putting turmeric on her neck and face. After a lot of patience, I went home and forced her to not have her phone. I asked her what happened. I told her to be quiet and watch. Then I gave her friend the link to this video from her ID and said, "Dude, it was a lot of fun that day, wasn't it?" She said, "That day is unforgettable. Your son-in-law can't fuck you properly." He also gave her a shame emoji. I made a video call and he just looked at me and said, "What the hell?"
The trouble that has been going on since then has not stopped. I am talking about divorce. He keeps telling me about 1 lakh taka. I am angry and saying that I will manage another 4 lakh for you. Then it will be 5 lakh kabin. Since then, he has been apologizing. But now I have become a stone for all this. I can't do it anymore. I don't even know what decision to make. I have been separated for a month. Both families know that I will get a divorce. They have been wanting to sit for discussions many times. I won't sit. I am suffering from indecision now. I don't know what to do.
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