Who is your Lover

Relationships are about probability.

It is the same way you play charity sweepstake or trade in forex. There is no guarantee in a relationship.

Relationships are about probability! You can either succeed or fail terribly.

I have done my research over time and realized that when you are entering a relationship be ready for anything. You can either lose or gain. Be ready for anything

We assume we know the person we are dating until things begin to go down the drain.

In the beginning, things will seem very promising and sweet, but when the river begins to run dry you realize that you are in the wrong relationship altogether or rather you need to change course.

But worse still many don’t recognize the warning signs until it is too late. The commitment has gone too far.

I was having a conversation with a lady friend about relationships. She is a single mother of two children, having been engaged in three relationships. She explained to me how her ex’s had become rich while she is still struggling with life. During their sunny days in the relationship, she was the one supporting the men with her little income. But after their separation, each one of them is doing extremely very well. In fact, her two kids are now supported by their fathers. So now she was asking me what that would be, But I had no answer. Anyway, at the end of the day, she concluded that she carries the lack that many unfaithful men lack!

The second story is about a man who in his days and just before marriage was doing well in his job, earning a good salary and able to meet his daily needs as well as save and entertain himself. Until when he married, his salary was slashed by 40 %, He began to incur debts that he could not understand how, rent arrears and he could no longer afford to pay his rent as he did previously.

Do you see where am coming from? Maybe yes, maybe not but the point I want to pass across is that get to choose your partner wisely.

If you want to become rich, then think about the first example. The second example is defeating and no one would like to choose that path.

But the critical question to answer! Is your partner a source of wealth or poverty?

Take a look at your situation now. Where were you before you met him/her and what is your current situation? Do you have a reason to thank God or do you regret !

I happen to be a victim of the second relationship.

 

 

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