While doing the dishes this morning, a thought struck my mind and I saw the need to share it with you 🌝🌝
Why do most ladies think that their life can only get better once they get married. I have always wanted to be a career woman and I say it alot, and most of my friends that I share this with do say, ' men do not like career women, or ladies who are independent and that it would chase suitors away' and I give them this kinda are you serious look 😳😳👀
For me I don't think men feel threatened by independent women, but it's actually the attitude that this independence comes with.. Guys I believe I'm speaking your mind
Now over to my thought 🌚
Ladies your life doesn't become better when you get married, instead in becomes more complex and complicated because of lots of responsibilities. Most ladies are subjected to the idea of my dreams can only come through when I get married and that's why you see a 25 year old lady that hasn't done anything productive with her life rushing to get married and even going to prayer houses, I'm not against the thought of getting married early though, but it's a wrong mentality because I once had that thinking.
While growing up, I've always told myself that I would get married to a pastor, because I believed that i would be accorded more respect and would become a better public speaker, but now I know that I was joking with myself, it took some time to get over that mindset.
To my ladies, you don't have to be married to pursue your goals, purpose or dreams. Marriage is not a ticket to everlasting fulfillment, utilize your single years, pursue God, build a name for yourself, impact lives, make your money. The truth is that men don't like ladies who are liabilities and you earn more respect when you don't bug them with your continuous demands.
I hope I helped in shaping your thinking 🌝🤗🤗
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