6. STINGINESS: This is what we call (Aka gum) in Nigerian dialect. 5 persons would want us to believe that STINGINESS by their former lover helped to kill the feelings they once had for them.
7. ANGER: uncontrollable anger became a reason that ended the love affairs of about 12 persons according to my research.
8. PRIDE/ARROGANCE: About 17 persons stated that pride, pomposity, arrogance were the major reasons him or her had to call off the once sweat lovebirds affairs.
9. SE*X: S/ex*ual incompatibility is also responsible for ending most relationship. About 16 people also confirm this.
10. TAKING YOU PARTNER FOR GRANTED: 15 Person said that the reason why they stopped having feelings for their former partner was for the simple fact that they were taken for granted. You know, no one likes to be taken for granted no matter how small they may be.
11. LACK OF COMMUNICATION: I initially thought that lack of communication would be the number one reason that made people stop having or catching feelings for someone they were once madly in love with. It turned out that was totally wrong, only 10 persons said lack of communication killed the feelings they once had for their former lover.
12. BODY/MOUTH ODOUR: This is also another relationship killer. But only 2 persons said that poor body or mouth odour made them ran away from their former relationship.
13. SELFISHNESS: This may look the same with stinginess but it's quite different. Stinginess has to do more with money or material things. Selfishness is all encompassing. It's has to do with everything. A person always thinking of him or herself without any consideration for the person you are in a relationship with. 5 persons said that selfishness ended their former relationship.
We can then rightly conclude here that CHEATING AND LIES kill feeling or end relationship faster than any other from the above. A lying partner may not be a cheater, while a cheating partner must be a liar.
This is the big difference between the two. What baffles me most is that among the 400 that responded only two people revealed that death was what brought an end to the love affairs they once had with their former partner. I personally think that there is a big lesson to be drawn from here, most especially for those of us who are madly in love, who are still in marriage or about to be married.
There is a 98% possibility that one or more among the above 13 factors may end your relationship if you are not very careful. Only 1% probability that death would cause the separation! Thank you.
By Patrick James
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