Bilang anak, nasabihan ka na ba dati ng magulang mo ng "pasalamat ka at ipinanganak kita" or things like "sana pala hindi na lang kita naging anak" or "pasalamat ka at pinapakain kita"?
It's very conventional, right? Then after nila sabihin iyon, they will say that they don't mean it. That it was just a spare of their anger.
But it's not. Saying that is a work of ego as if they own you and you owe them all of the things you have. But you don't.
Una, tinanong ka na ba nila kung gusto mong maipanganak sa magulo at malupit na mundong ito?
Pangalawa, karapatan mong pakainin, bihisan, bigyang tirahan at seguridad, as technically written in our constitution.
Article XV, Section 3, Paragraph 2 of the 1987 Constitution—
"The right of children to assistance, including proper care and nutrition, and special protection from all forms of neglect, abuse, cruelty, exploitation and other conditions prejudicial to their development"
Pangatlo, tinanong ka na ba nila kung gusto mo sila bilang magulang? Because no one has the power to choose their parents, and others are unfortunate enough.
If not, then they don't have the moral authority to ask you with those kind of gaslighting questions.
No one wants to live with existing mental illnesses.
No one wants to live with a nonfunctional family.
No one wants to live with abuse, gaslight or violence.
And if you experience these sa murang edad, you owe no one.
Mahalaga ang foundation.
Everyone should be mentally, financially and emotionally stable to be parents.
Hindi pwedeng mag-aanak lang tayo at ipararanas natin sa kanila ang parental neglect—giving them a cold shoulder and neglecting their emotional needs.
Being distant to them that will result avoidance and lack of affection.
Having anger issues na mababaling at masasalin sa anak through physical and verbal abuse.
Having a critique ego that will affect their self-esteem and confidence, to the point that they can't be proud of their own achievements or even themselves anymore.
Parenthood should be a safe space and a fundamental starting line for all of us.
Dapat ay hinuhulma ang mga bata nang may prinsipyo at proper values.
Children should be guided with foundational love.
Children should be given proper attention and communication. Dapat hindi ilang ang bata makipag-usap sa magulang.
Dapat simula ng ipananganak sila hanggang sa kanilang paglaki, magulang ang dapat unang nagbibigay ng radikal na pagmamahal.
Family is the root cause of everything.
Your upbringing will reflect on what kind of person you are in this society.
If you grew up mentally unstable, violent and self-destructive, walang dapat ibang magtake ng accountability kun'di ang magulang.
Not all are capable to be parents.
Hindi ka ipananganak para lumaki lang at lumaki lang dahil ipinanganak ka.
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