Love with your heart and sense.

The era we are now ,there are so many heresies going on by so many people,men you must be a man in deed and take all responsibilities,what about women who says you can't be of help to your own husband. So many women are not ready to be under any man just because they are self made it's good but the lapses of not having a man will reflect one day. You can be under a man and still be self made and be a support to your man. So when loving, both man and woman love with your heart and your sense at the same time, meaning you need to love your spouse with your heart and at the same time be responsible and sensitive in handling your affairs. Don't live your life at the expense of impressing anyone and don't compare your man with another man,be yourself and live your life to the fullest. Marriages are in chaos now due to pressure here and there, don't be bothered because there is nothing new under the heavens,it has happened before to someone and you are not the first, just pray, focus on God, yourself, your man, your children and also your future and that of your children. Remain blessed.