TIPS TO BE THE BEST TO YOUR WIFE OR PARTNER AS A HUSBAND
1. GIVE HER YOUR TOTAL LOVE: Women like to be spoilt with love. It is the priority of the husband to give absolute love to his wife.
2. BE A HUSBAND THAT FORGIVE: Misunderstanding is bound to happen in a relationship or other but forgiving ones partner is the key to solution.
3. GIVE HER HELPING HAND: Your wife is not a maid or slave, what will make you not to assist your wife. There is nothing bad in man assisting his wife for home chores. Even in the kitchen, some wives like there husband staying with them when cooking so they will have time to discuss or do something funny. Helping or assisting your wife create room for love in hi heart. Nothing is bad in helping ones wife, this give them connecting and have chitchat in the kitchen. Give helping hand.
4. RESPECT HER BELIEF: Since you are both friend different family this may call for different belief and view of things. This might be religion, way of life or anything. The main thing here is that you need to know whom you want to marry before marrying her and as long as you have decided to marry her as your wife you just have to know how to go with it. There have been so many occurrences where issue of religion has torn family apart, way of life has turned some downward, how to use toothpaste has scattered some, all these require understanding and simple bearing. You can not love your wife and hate her belief, it is either you learn how to respect her belief or you don't just take her in. And, as long as you have taken her you need to love and respect her with it, if not! Your family is at the edge of destruction.
5. MIND YOUR LOOK: Most women know what they want on their man in terms of dressing, man need studying what his wife like and do his best to make it work. Though, some women might not be bothered about this but most of them value it, no man will dress awkwardly and expect his wife to like it, most of women like their man shining, sparkling, dressed smartly and others. You must do your best in making your appearance look good to your wife. "The way you dress is the way people address you they say" as a man you need your appearance look good to your wife, be a husband his wife will always want to go to that picture, look and smile and say, "SEE MY HANDSOME AND GOOD LOOKING MAN".
Man must do his best to look good in all ways.
6. KNOW HER LIKES AND DISLIKES: Know your partner quite well should be another core thing for you to do. Man need studying his wife and know those things she like and don't like, women hate stepping on their toes, even when they do not talk, it might still mean a very big thing. You don't do those things she do not like but do your best to always be on point, women love this when you satisfy them in all ways. Most time, when a man go with the wishes of his wife, this doesn't mean you are too dull or lenient as a man but you must do what will make your family be in peace and keep it stronger.
7. STAY HONEST: Honesty they say is the super good attitude. Women love any man is honesty in dealing, they can go to any length for such a man. Some will never mind your condition of some other things if they gain that honesty from you. A good man or husband must be a man with honesty, you don't have to call white as black to your wife, you let all things be as you have said it. A man with honest is always trusted and recommended for people. At all cost, a good husband must be honest to his wife at all cost.
8. ALSO CARE FOR HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS : In my race, there is this saying that when you live a woman you must equally love everything about her, family, friends, belief and other things.
It is always a great thing a man take his wife family and friends as one, you love a woman means you need love her family and friends too, they are the one whom she knew before you, In Fact they are part of her life and will still be part of her life even during the marriage, you might not know as a man, they might have contributed to the woman you saw and married, so leaving them aside is like taking away some part of your wife.
Though, as a man, one need to be very careful as this call for wisdom but your wife is surrounded with the right people you have no problem, but the fact is that, they are part of her ad long as they can still see each other.
Loving and caring for your wife's family and friend is like adding to the weight of love you already have for her and they always like this.
9. AVOID EXTERNAL AFFAIRS : Some men can not do without them having extramarital affair with other women, this is not welcome for a man who truly love his wife, as long as she is still alive you don't have to. This had broken many families today, this is call cheating, what the woman do the woman do the same? What make the difference? When you give room for this in your marriage you are dividing your home already and giving room to disorderliness in your home. This will cut down the level of love she has for you and another thing is she will never trust on other things again. You equally give room to external forces both spiritual and physical, and do you equally think that this can equally call for incurable diseases? Stick with your wife as a man and live your life together in peace. Some women will never challenge you about this but automatically reduce the peak of their love towards you. You don't have to go out for another women, when you stick with your wife, this make her trust and love you the more and equally heightened the love she has for you.
In conclusion, the truth is any good you do for your wife is equally for you not just for her and give your family unending peace and harmony with great bond.
MEN! LOVE YOUR WIFE
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