Why should I suffer with you?
This question is familiar; it is quite popular among the ladies. I have heard some controversies around women being entitled and wanting the man to be the provider.
Well, these are not unfounded, but a girl has a right to dream... Heck, it's her life, her future, and her choice to gamble with not. So if she says she wants to be a lady of leisure, her choice.
Women are wired differently, and I believe that it is important that men accept this. A woman is going to want whatever she wants even if it doesn't seem as rational as you want it to be.
Women are no longer sitting silent and being domicile, which means they are making badass moves to be their dream girl.
So if as a lady, you want the baby girl lifestyle, you have to be willing to do the work to have that choice.
Now, I am not saying be the provider: my point is this, be ready to be a valuable partner. Be ready to be the manager and queen of that palace.
When a man asks a "What do you want to bring to the table" question, he doesn't necessarily mean to ask how much you will be contributing financially.
He wants to know how you are willing to help him grow! If you are not growing yourself, redundancy might be lurking in your future together.
To the men, you don't ask that question when you are still looking for a carpenter to make that table for you.
Women or men, it is important that you invest in your personal growth first. Poverty is of the mind. No one should be made to choose it by a union.
When I am talking about poverty, I do not mean the lack of money. I am talking about the lack of ideas, lack of character, lack of sense, lack of growth among many others. These are the real wealth of a person.
I will never marry poor because I choose to invest in these areas of my life.
Again, everything in life is a choice, make the one that suits your interest lovelies.
Till the pen brings us together again.
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