Love is powerful, but it isn’t always enough. You can deeply love someone, care for them, and want the best for them—but still not be the right fit for each other. And that’s a tough pill to swallow.
We often believe that love should conquer all. That if we feel love strongly enough for a prospective partner, we can make it work. But what happens when:
♦️ Your values don’t align?
♦️ Your visions for the future clash?
♦️ Your emotional needs go unmet despite the love you share?
Love without compatibility can feel like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. You keep pushing, hoping that with enough force, things will click. But instead, you end up exhausted, frustrated, and questioning everything.
Being right for someone isn’t just about love—it’s about emotional security, mutual respect, shared goals, and the ability to grow together without constantly breaking each other.
Sometimes, the kindest thing you can do is accept that love exists, but the relationship isn’t healthy or sustainable.
If you’ve ever had to walk away from someone you love, know this: You are not alone, and you are not a failure.
Letting go of what isn’t right makes room for what is. And when the right person comes along, love won’t have to fight so hard just to survive—it will thrive.
Can you relate? Have you ever loved someone and realized you weren’t meant to be together?
The Get Yourself Ready For Marriage 12-week Group Coaching Program will open your eyes and show you the stuff you need to know to determine if a prospective partner is right for you.
©️ Modupe Ehirim
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