Children are visitors

It's the joy of every couples when they get married to have children, especially in our African culture if you don't have children the society look at you very different.If you don't have children then your leanage is finished and no one will be able to carry it on.

 But as much children are very important to us we should not allow our children as parents to up our space and leave us empty. Remember Children are visitors as they come soon they will leave us alone again, when a child gets to school that is the first process of transit and out of our lives.

We spent less time with them but spend more time in school with the teachers, they are leaving slow by slow, when they get to high school or boarding school now we spent only few months in a year,it's evidence they are going out of out lives soon they are completely gone when they get their jobs and finally get married and startup their own families.

Now we are alone as first we met,if you didn't keep your love Bank positive now the reality begins to hit you because all your efforts and love you invested it in your children alone now they are gone building their own lives and yours is now on the verge of breaking down because now you're living like strangers no one knows how to manage each other.

Always keep your love Bank positive towards your spouse because after children leaves you need it to you two moving forward.