Whenever you start to have this feeling of missing someone you love.

That someone who you used to Lough together and cry together but left you crushed and hopeless.

Just try to stop right there for a minute and remember.

The disrespect and taking you for granted.

Remember the time when your words were crushed and left invalidate?

Remember the effort you set for for own boundaries how it stamped and destroyed?

Remember the questions asked and left like you are insane and confused.

Remember the time you beg for their approval, their repect and their love which did not exist, but they refused to listen.

Remember their intentions of breaking your heart over trust , repeatedly.

Remember how all made you feel, like a little child.

Remember how she treated you during her friends presence, like you are invisible .

Remember the noises and the lies, making you feel like a monster in your own life.

It's normal to miss someone who you once share a soil together.But again, also important to save your heart from breaking again and remember the reason why they left in the first place.

Remember all this and respect yourself for the effort you took to free yourself from the instant love killer's.And put a little Pat in your shoulder for coming out alive.You did not lose the love of your life, no, you survived and saved by your strong side of defence in your own life.